Surfing has allowed more insight into the simplicity of life and brings me closer to Tao, my aim is love and literally to flow, as water, knowing only the form it takes. A drop of water in the ocean becomes the ocean. A cup filled with water becomes the cup.
Some extracts taken from Alan Watts:
"The tao is a    certain kind of order, and this kind of order is not quite what we call order    when we arrange everything geometrically in boxes, or in rows. That is a very    crude kind of order, but when you look at a plant it is perfectly obvious that    the plant has order. We recognize at once that is not a mess, but it is not    symmetrical and it is not geometrical looking. The plant looks like a Chinese    drawing, because they appreciated this kind of non-symmetrical order so much    that it became an integral aspect of their painting. In the Chinese language    this is called li, and the character for li means the markings in jade. It also    means the grain in wood and the fiber in muscle. We could say, too, that clouds    have li, marble has li, the human body has li. We all recognize it, and the    artist copies it whether he is a landscape painter, a portrait painter, an abstract    painter, or a non-objective painter. They all are trying to express the essence    of li. The interesting thing is, that although we all know what it is, there    is no way of defining it. Because tao is the course, we can also call li the    watercourse, and the patterns of li are also the patterns of flowing water.    We see those patterns of flow memorialized, as it were, as sculpture in the    grain in wood, which is the flow of sap, in marble, in bones, in muscles. All    these things are patterned according to the basic principles of flow. In the    patterns of flowing water you will all kind of motifs from Chinese art, immediately    recognizable, including the S-curve in the circle of yang-yin. 
So li means    then the order of flow, the wonderful dancing pattern of liquid, because Lao-tzu    likens tao to water: 
The great tao flows everywhere, to the left and to the right,For as he comments elsewhere, water always seeks the lowest level, which men abhor, because we are always trying to play games of one-upmanship, and be on top of each other. But Lao-tzu explains that the top position is the most insecure. Everybody wants to get to the top of the tree, but then if they do the tree will collapse."
It loves and nourishes all things, but does not lord it over them.